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Player/Parent Manual

The Season


The BSSC trains and organizes competitive soccer teams to play against other club
teams in the Northern New England Soccer League (NNESL). We currently offer U9
through U12 teams, accepting players ages 7 to 11. Travel should be no more than an
hour to any game.


The season starts the week after the BSSC Fall Kickoff. The following is a rough schedule
of the fall season:


• August: BSSC Fall Kick Off, Practices begin. Your coach will have details as to practice
time and location, Epping Jamboree
• September: First NNESL games begin and picture day/clothing drive
• October: Concord Columbus Day Tournament, Night out – UNH Men’s Soccer,
Durham, NH
• November : Season ends, Banquet


Code of Conduct


We--the Barrington Storm Soccer Club (BSSC), its coaches, the players and their
parents--have a responsibility to promote high standards of behavior in the game of
soccer. The Barrington Storm Soccer Club (BSSC) has designed this code of conduct to
ensure soccer can be enjoyed in a safe and positive environment. All disciplinary
actions will be handled according to our Behavior Management Policy-
including our anti-bullying policy.


Remember, youth soccer is a time for players to develop their technical, physical,
tactical and social skills. Winning is not everything. Play your part and help enforce the
BSSC's Code of Conduct for as a parent and a spectator.


1. Leave the coaching to the coaches
This includes motivating, psyching up your child for practice, after game critiquing,
setting goals, and requiring additional training. You have entrusted the care of your
player to these coaches and they need to be free to do their job. If a player has too many
coaches, it is confusing for them and their performance usually declines.


2. Support the program
Get involved. Volunteer. Help out with fundraisers, car-pool, anything to support the
program.

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3. Be your child's best fan
Support your child unconditionally. Do not withdraw your support when your child
performs poorly. Your child should never have to perform to win your support.


4. Support ALL players on the team
Foster teamwork. Your child's teammates are not the enemy. When they are playing
better than your child, your child now has a wonderful opportunity to learn.


5. Do not bribe or offer incentives
Your job is not to motivate. Leave this to the coaching staff. Bribes will distract your
child from properly concentrating in practice and game situations.


6. Encourage your child to talk with the coaches
If your child is having difficulties in practice or games or can't make a practice,
encourage them to speak directly to the coaches. This "responsibility taking" is a big part
of becoming a big-time player. By handling the off-field tasks, your child is claiming
ownership of all aspects of the game -- preparation for, as well as playing the game.


7. Understand and display appropriate game behavior
Remember, your child's self esteem and game performance is at stake. Be supportive,
cheer, and be appropriate. Also, appreciate good soccer, no matter the source: If the
other team makes a phenomenal play, say something.


8. Respect the game
Respect the authority of the coaches and the referees. Do not heckle or direct negative
comments to the referees. In many cases, the referees are young adults and this is part
of their opportunity to mature and grow -- be supportive of that.
Finally, let the players play. While winning is nice, it is not the object of games. Testing
player's skills and giving them an opportunity to improve and mature is far more
important.


Concussion Management Policy
The coach and any agent of the BSSC, including parents, have the decision making
power to stop a player from play if they observe any signs and symptoms of a
concussion. The coach’s decision over rules the parent’s decision, if they decide to stop
the player from playing. If the coach determines that there is a possible concussion
then the player will be removed from play. The parent will receive an action plan sheet
and a request to seek approval from a medical professional before the player is allowed
to play again.

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Recommendations for Parents

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To help set these boundaries, it is highly recommended that parents follow the guidelines below:

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• Drop players off on time for games and practices. If you are going to be late please inform the coach.

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• During games feel free to support and cheer for the players and team. The atmosphere should always portray that of a ’youth soccer game’ therefore getting emotionally involved in the game is unnecessary.

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• During practices, try to give your child the freedom to train with their team without mom or dad watching every minute of every practice. Parents should feel free to drop players at practice and then maybe enjoy some free time.

 

The 24-Hour Rule

If you have a question for the coach in reference to an incident with your son or daughter that directly relates to a game. You should wait 24 hours before calling or emailing the coach. This helps defuse potentially emotional situations.

 

Comments after games should be positive and constructive.

 

Also, please allow coaches time to respond to your questions. All BSSC coaches are volunteers and not full-time employees. If you feel that your concern is not being properly addressed, please contact Anthony Vittorioso, the BSSC's Director of coaching.

 

Unacceptable conduct

Unacceptable conduct will not be tolerated by the Barrington Storm Soccer Club. This includes:

 

• Being overzealous on the sideline during games

• Berating or directing degrading remarks at players, coaches or referees

• Not following the 24-hour rule

• Using foul language

• Coaching from the sideline

 

Unacceptable conduct during a game can result in a referee directing the coach to resolve the situation. If a coach asks a parent to leave, they must comply. Failure to comply can escalate the situation and result in a penalty for the team and a fine, as well as a suspension for the coach.

 

If it is brought to a directors attention that a parent has been involved in "unacceptable behavior," that parent will be asked to meet with the Barrington Storm Soccer Club Directors and consequences deemed appropriate for the situation by the Barrington Storm Soccer Club Executive Board will be executed.

Role of the Players

The Barrington Storm Soccer Club exists to promote the appropriate development of
soccer skills; strategies and tactics, as well as helping players enjoy and learn from the
game in physical, mental, social and emotional areas. Remember that the coaches are
here to help you -- be respectful of this and always give your best.


Remember to thank your parents for giving you the opportunity to play for the
Barrington Storm Soccer Club, as well as the support they show by watching your games
and driving you to and from training sessions.


Here are some other traits you should follow:


1. Practice is essential
Practice is essential to your development. You must be prepared to work hard each and
every practice, and do your best to be on time.


The time before practices and games is a very important part of your development. Use
the time to your advantage, warm up before you get on the field, and while on the field
waiting for the coach, work with the ball rather than standing around talking.


2. Take care of your equipment
Brush your cleats off if they are covered in mud, rather than throwing them in your bag
and leaving them until your next practice. Make sure your ball is adequately pumped up,
and remember to have the correct color jersey, shorts, and socks for the game.


3. Be a good sport
Maintain good sportsmanship throughout games and practice. Remember to shake the
hands at the end of games with the referee and opposing team.


4. Ask questions
The coaches are there to help you. If you don’t understand something the coach says,
don’t be afraid to ask the coach what they said.


5. Learn from real games
Watch soccer on TV or go to a game. There are many televised games in the U.S. and
UNH has a great program. You should take the time to watch these games and see how
the game is played at a higher level. Pick a player and try to emulate them.


6. Be a role model
Represent yourself, your family and the club every time you play, practice or travel with
the Barrington Storm Soccer Club.


7. Take your education seriously
No matter how much you love soccer your education is more important. Make sure you
earn the right to play for the Barrington Storm Soccer Club by always doing your very
best at school. Parents and guardians have, in the past, taken soccer away from players
that are not doing their best in school; don’t let this happen to you!

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A link to the full Player / Parent Manual can be found by clicking here

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